feeling fatigue, feeling that someone has grabbed my voicebox and stomped on it, because what I truly want to express to my son's gf and mom of my beautiful grandchildren can not be stated with calmness and dignity because she will scream at me so I say nothing- so I show her love, concern, friendliness, warmth, ....but the giant pink elephant sits in their living room taking up crevices and corners and what really could be said to deflate the gaseous creature is not being said because she does not see, hear, or smell the elephant or she chooses not to see, hear, smell or admit to her use of ...........Now she and the children have gone to her home for a number of days and David is working fulltime and cannot leave.